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The point of a date is to get to know someone better. She will be pressured and will likely shut you out. And some will do that. Raising our children as believers is proving to be very tricky. I have been on both sides of this situation, and I know how much it sucks to feel like you're doing everything you can to make it as easy and convenient as possible for the other person to spend time with you, but theyre still not seeing you all that much, and you think they should be able to give you a little more. Should I consider giving up my PhD plans, take up whatever job I can based on my commitments or I should look for somebody with whom my profession is more compatible. He want to wait at least one year before he makes any decision he want to take it slow.
That being sais, just be honest. Having married over the course of my life not one but two wonderful non-Mormon men one Jewish and one low-church ProtestantI can say that my own spirituality has been profoundly deepened and enriched by the perspective that these two God-fearing and spiritually mature people offered me, and by my participation in the observances of their traditions. I think Bob, the answer can be found in your comment. But my relationship with him is worth this small sacrifice. These same principles have helped build strong, successful religious communities for thousands of years. Maybe it won't be a big deal. Also, I'm not involved with a doctor but I am an RN and spend quite a bit of time with them.